To people whose friends just got attached
First of all, especially if you haven’t got attached before, please know that juggling boyfriend/girlfriend and friends AND a plethora of other stuff is tiring and impossible. There’s a reason why the term “supermom” (who juggles husband, children, work, and everything else) was invented, you know.
Second of all, please know that we still want to hang out with you guys, just that sometimes our boyfriend/girlfriend made appointment with us. First come first served, ok? And also to mention that sometimes you just assume we’re busy with our boyfriend/girlfriend so you just exclude us because you think we’ll be busy anyway. No, we didn’t say no when you invited us. You didn’t even invite us, remember?
Third of all, we don’t live for you. Well yes we were ALWAYS together when we and you were still single, but hello. Doesn’t mean we dedicate our lives for you. This goes in line with #1 and #2. We’re just too busy and stressed juggling all, and sorry we can’t make it for an appointment with you because the boyfriend/girlfriend made it first. Yes, we want to make time for you but no, it can’t be fulfilled everytime.
All in all,
Friends support friends. Friends get happy when friends are happy. Friends understand friends. Friends don’t force selfish desire. Friends don’t assume. Friends don’t look with one eye.
And friends will be friends even though they don’t see each other that often anymore.
I think that’s the way it should be.
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