When there’s a problem, you cry.
Some say it’s a very girl’s thing. (Boys don’t cry, eh?)
And everybody hates a crybaby.
I think crying is not a problem. I prefer to think of it as a natural way to overcome problems. It’s like an automatic mechanism from your body.
On a personal note, I’ve been having this problem since the beginning of my second term. It started to be small, and I thought it was nothing, but it became big. And actually until now I’m not really sure what the problem is. I mean, like, the scope or something. It was something unsure. It was something unpredictable.
Whatever it is, it crushes me down…
But when I am finally able to cry for this problem, I think I have overcome the problem.
Maybe it’s finished, maybe it’s not.
Who knows.
Btw, I think being in gloomy mode makes you creative. In some sense. Like, writing (crazy) songs like crazy. That’s a form of creativity.. Rite???
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Tears is a form of comfort.
And who say guys don’t cry? I kick him in the balls see he cry or not!
never give up! never give up! never give up!
Darling.. I don’t think crying overcomes that problem? There comes a time when crying stops giving you what you need, that sense of relief over a problem.. And when it does, you’ll feel so frustrated, you don’t know what’s going on..
Even if you didn’t run out of tears such that you really wanna cry but you can’t anymore cos you don’t have tears.. crying will one day be one medium which is pointless, a waste of energy, a waste of time..
After you cry.. the problem is still there, in the exact same form.. right?
So what do you do then? seek solace Sylv.. in the only One you should.. not humans because we are not perfect.. We can’t love perfectly.. seek solace in the Lord, who will accept us, no matter what.. Who died for us, even with all our weaknesses and flaws.. Which shows that He loves us too much to let us go..
You know.. in everything.. there’s something to learn.. even in painful memories.. This is what I learnt.. the past few weeks.. i just wanted to share.. Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends. (John 15:13)
28″Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)
God bless you dear.. hugz..
dk : wah lao! I kick yours lah. Cry or not??
Deri : thank’s.
michelle : thank’s very much girlie.. hehe.. the thing is i couldn’t cry. when i can finally cry, i feel the burden lifted up.. that’s why.. but thx very much for the beautiful reply
im a crybaby whenever i watch hindi movies, sad sad dramas, im so emo…
ridiculous when someone said boys don’t cry…we just won’t show it to others, especially chicks (coz chicks don’t dig crybaby-boy?) hehe
but remember, Edwin Cole once said “Crying over what’s gone won’t find the present.”
to get over with, a big deep crying will do I guess
of course boys do cry!
Crying is the one that separates the men from the boys.
Boys cry, men don’t.
i think we need to cry once in a while, it’s good for our mental health…. but then again I’m a woman
yanni : ooh.. drama.. of course..
gerry : yeah i guess so..
suhu : what are you, then?
koeniel : hahaha see! You agree with me